Story of Paska, 11-year-old ‘mum’ and how you can help her, siblings
Meet Paska, an extraordinary girl, who has become a ‘mum’ to her three younger siblings at the age of just 11.
Left alone after the death of her mom, Paska took on responsibility for her three younger siblings, dropping out of school to care for her baby sister Rose.
This wasn’t easy for Paska: “It hurts to see that other children go to school, but we have to stay at home because no one can support us and I need to take care of Rose.”
The girls weren’t left entirely by themselves for long though. They were sent to live with their uncle who lived nearby. But he suffers from alcoholism and, fearing for the children’s safety, their aunt Lily stepped in.
“I have to take care of the children, yet I don’t know anything.”
This is a familiar cry these days, mainly from frustrated parents suddenly thrust into the role of lockdown supply teacher. But, here, it’s the frustrated plea of 11-year-old Paska. Even before coronavirus hit the country, her role had changed dramatically – from schoolgirl, to “mother-of-three”. Sadly, Paska’s mother died giving birth to her baby sister Rose. Soon after, their father abandoned them.
Paska and her siblings now live with Lily a Koor William in Juba. But they’re not out of the woods yet. Lily has children of her own, and while she feels a sense of responsibility for her extended family, she admits, “I cannot provide for them”.
Paska says simply: “Our life was far better when our mother was alive, even if she didn’t have a job. Now it’s terrible.”
So Paska can’t relinquish the responsibility she’s quietly bearing. And for Rose, Paska’s sacrifice has been lifesaving. Without her mother’s milk, Rose became severely malnourished and for the past few months, Paska has dutifully taken her to a nutrition centre for treatment. “I brought her to the centre every week because her situation was not good. Now that she has greatly improved, I take her once every two weeks.”
They have been getting support from a nutrition centre in Juba supported by World Vision, whose team is already supporting 4,370 severely malnourished children.
Story originally posted on World Vision