When model Nyakim Gatwech was in middle school, she cried herself to sleep thinking she wasn’t beautiful enough. Now, the 24 year old South Sudanese model has become an icon of beauty and an inspiration to young women everywhere. Her secret? Self-love.
“It takes time to love who you are. Be confident in whatever the situation is,” Nyakim said in an interview with Teen Vogue, “If you love yourself other people will see. It will shine through you and then they have the choice to accept you or walk away.”
“It’s beautiful to be black.” It is the color of strength and pride. I will say it out loud. I don’t have to hide. I love me, and the color that I represent. Look at me, there is nothing like it. What you see is not an illusion. It’s a gift from GOD, don’t ever confuse it. “It’s beautiful to be black.” It is the color of fame and envy. If I wasn’t black, I wouldn’t be me. By Chara NyAshia Sanjo || red || Photographer/designer @isaacwest Model @queenkim_nyakim #confideniskey❤️ #southsudanesebeauty🇸🇸🇸🇸😍😍🙌🏿 #melaninpoppin🍫❤️✨ #chocolate🍫 #melaningoddess👑🍫 #queenofdark🍫🖤👸🏿 #blackgirlmagic💫✨ #loveyourselffirst💋
Nyakim went viral after posting a story of her interaction with an Uber driver on Instagram. When the Uber driver asked her if she would bleach her skin for $10,000, Nyakim laughed it off. “I would never do that. I consider my skin to be a blessing,” she told him.
Ever since, Nyakim has been nicknamed the “Queen of the Dark” by her fans and has proven her royalty in her fierce photos and motivational captions. Nyakim has become a woman that little girls look up to when, they too, are in search of self-love.
“When I put a picture up I’m telling people that no matter what you say, I love who I am. I love my skin tone. I’m telling people that I am beautiful even though I look different than the majority of people in this world I live in,” Nyakim said.
With the power of her 260K+ followers on Instagram, Nyakim has used her recent fame to challenge American beauty standards. Nyakim, who spent the majority of her childhood among the lighter-skinned people of Ethiopia and Kenya, said she never experienced colorism until she came to the US.
“I never had a problem with my skin until I came to America, went to my middle school and realized everyone was staring at me. The kids made fun of me,” Nyakim said.
My black is flawless I’ve never been this proud before My skin never felt so good Was I not used to it? I can’t remember when I loved this shade so much My color is dark and lovely. It sings with a rhythmic melody of beauty. My black is loud It yelled at this pale-faced lady the other day She tried to demean my black And just as quickly as she did My black screamed back. My skin roared with elegance Reminding you it is not afraid anymore My black is loved I rubbed it down tenderly today Making sure to touch every inch. Ever so gently it glistened and radiated My black shimmers and still catches attention. It’s been kissed and hugged Yet still selfishly wants more My black isn’t always easy But I am my black and my black is me. By Jennifer Asiedu 📸 @sethnocentric 💄 @queenkim_nyakim #queenofdark🍫🖤👸🏿 #southsudanesebeauty🇸🇸🇸🇸😍😍🙌🏿 #nubianqueen👸🏿 #melaningoddess👑🍫 #chocolate🍫 #melaninpoppin🍫❤️✨ #darkchocolate #confideniskey❤️ #slelove
Now, the model has embraced her darkly pigmented skin and challenges representation in modeling through every photos she takes. Though her skin might look different than others, beauty is diverse, she said.
Nyakim is finishing up Minneapolis Community College this fall. After graduation, Nyakim plans on devoting herself to her modeling, but knows one day she will be an elementary school teacher.
“My goal is to continue with school, continue with modeling, and give back. It’s not all about me, I want to help others who went through what I went through. I want to give back to my community in whatever way possible,” Nyakim said.
Nyakim, who immigrated to the US when she was 14, first learned what the word “model” meant in the grocery store. Nyakim had a long journey coming to the US from South Sudan, immigrating by her bare feet from a refugee camp in Ethiopia to a refugee camp in Kenya, and finally to the US. Nyakim lost two siblings along the way, but never gave up hope. The model came to the US in 2007 with her mom and siblings by her side. Nyakim now wants to share her story and raise awareness of what’s going on in her home country of South Sudan.
When strangers would stop her in the grocery store and suggest she pursue a modeling career, the language barrier prevented Nyakim from understanding. “I used to think ‘what’s modeling? Is that a job I should go apply for?’” Nyakim laughed. But her sister, who also used to model, encouraged her to go into the modeling industry to help make it more diverse.
We’ve come a long way but we still have a long way to go. My hope is that this post can remind you everyday of why you should be proud of your melanin. Why you should be proud of your heritage regardless of how light or dark your skin is. Stop comparing your skin anyone Change can only happen once you can truthfully look in the mirror and love that Deep Chocolate, Cinnamon, Mocha, or Caramel complexion. #tbh💯 Designer @hannahkathryne Photographer @jeanniemariephotography #darkchocolate🍫❤️ #confideniskey❤️ #melaninpoppin🍫❤️✨ #melaningoddess👑🍫 #nuerbeauty😍😍🙌🏿🙌🏿 #africanqueen👸🏿 #southsudanesebeauty🇸🇸🇸🇸😍😍🙌🏿
It wasn’t until her Junior year of high school when Nyakim felt she could really pursue modeling. The career clicked with Nyakim when she strutted down the runway in her friend’s designs at a school event, she said. It was then the dark skinned beauty started to build her portfolio, taking two years in New York and countless weekends during college to have photo shoots. Today, not only has Nyakim taken the internet by storm with her modeling, but she has started a movement of self-love and female empowerment.
“I empower dark skinned little girls who are bullied for having skin they can’t change,” Nyakim said. “A little girl wrote me a paragraph thanking me for loving myself. She told me that because I love myself she started to love herself too.”
Nyakim always had her mom to remind her that she is beautiful and build her self-love, she said. Now, Nyakim wants young women everywhere to know that they can reach out to her to be that person. After all, self-love is contagious.
“If you’re going through something as a young girl, talk to someone. Reach out to me. If you send me a message on social media, I will definitely respond and give you the best advice I have,” Nyakim said.
via Teen Vogue